Four Days.
One Relationship.
Built On Purpose.
Not Autopilot.
A four-day experience where couples learn practical relationship skills through meaningful experiences, guided conversations and time intentionally invested in each other.
Experience Love
Reimagined
What You Will Experience
Love Reimagined is a carefully designed four-day journey where each experience builds on the last, combining practical relationship skills, meaningful conversations, guided experiences and dedicated time to reconnect as a couple.
You will learn together.
Experience together.
Laugh together.
Reflect together.
And leave with practical tools you can continue using long after the retreat ends.
Throughout the retreat, your conversations remain private between the two of you. Nothing is shared publicly.
You do not have to wait until you are in crisis.
Sometimes, life simply gets in the way.
It rarely happens all at once. More often, it's the small moments of connection that slowly become less intentional. Does any of this sound familiar?.
Does this sound familiar?
Conversations have become about logistics, schedules and responsibilities not about dreams, desires or each other.
You feel more like co-managers running a household than partners building a life together.
You love each other, but sometimes feel emotionally alone in the relationship.
You react instead of respond. You assume instead of ask. You survive instead of truly connect.
Life feels organised but your relationship feels quietly neglected.
For many couples, these challenges become even more complex in Second marriages and Blended familes...
The ex-partner still casts a long shadow over your marriage and your home.
Children’s loyalties pull you in directions that strain your partnership.
You feel guilty in your marriage when the ex family seem to need more.
You carry the fear of repeating what didn’t work before and the pressure of wanting this to be different.
You do not know where loyalty to the childern ends and loyalty to each other begins.
Reconnect before the distance becomes the story.
Your relationship deserves the same intention you
give everything else that matters.
Every Relationship Is Going Somewhere.
Choose Its Direction.
- Reacting instead of responding
- Feeling emotionally and/or physically distant
- Getting through life together
- Guessing what your partner needs
- Growing apart
- Conversations becoming defensive
- Hoping things improve
- Responding with intention and care
- Rediscovering emotional and physical intimacy
- Intentionally enjoying life together
- Understanding what matters most to each other
- Growing together
- Communicating without blame and defensiveness
- Building the relationship you both want to come home to.
You will not leave with a perfect relationship. You will leave knowing how to intentionally strengthen it with practical relationship skills, renewed confidence and the reassurance that you are building it together.
Guided by Experts Who
Understand Your World
Christa Coetzee: Lead Facilitator | Retreat Creator
Psychologist, Sexologist and Relationships Coach trusted by couples for over 30 years.
Her depth of understanding of second marriages, blended family dynamics and the complexity of intimacy within those relationships is what makes this retreat uniquely qualified to serve couples navigating that world.
Having helped couples for more than three decades, Christa believes great relationships are not found they are intentionally built
Lydia Benatar: Co-Facilitator
Lydia brings a unique ability to create meaningful experiences that help couples move beyond understanding into action. Through experiential facilitation and breakthrough coaching, she helps create moments that couples remember long after the retreat ends.
Her role throughout the retreat centres on creating embodied, somatic experiences that move couples beyond intellectual insight into felt, lasting transformation.
Why NOW?
Life rarely slows down on its own.
There will always be another project, another commitment, another reason to wait.
The best time to strengthen your relationship is not when it is in crisis.
It is while there is still love and the desire to build something even stronger.
Four days, away from the calendar, the children, and the noise of an ordinary week, held only for the two of you and what you are building together.
If not NOW….Then When?
Your relationship shapes
every other part of your life.
A home can be renovated. A business can recover. Time together cannot be replaced. Investing in your relationship is an investment in everything that grows from it. Love brings two people together. Learning the practical relationship skills to nurture that love, is what helps it last.
- 4 fully facilitated days in an exclusive tranquil bush setting
- Luxury accommodation throughout the retreat
- All meals included from arrival to departure
- Carefully designed experiences that bring practical relationship skills to life.
- Practical relationship resources and tools to take home
- Personal facilitation by both Christa Coetzee and Lydia Benatar
- Post-retreat integration session with Christa, two weeks after the retreat
The average couple invests significantly in their home, their children's education, their careers and their health. Yet the relationship at the centre of all of those things often receives the least intentional attention.
This retreat is not a luxury break. It is a structured, expertly facilitated experience designed to produce lasting change in how you relate to each other, and how you build your life together.
Two weeks after the retreat, Christa will meet with all couples for a dedicated integration session. This helps you embed what you experienced, navigate what has surfaced, and sustain the momentum you created together at the retreat. Because lasting change happens when great experiences become everyday habits.
BEGIN YOU NEXT CHAPTER
Your relationship does not need to wait
until something breaks.
If you're ready to intentionally invest in your relationship, learn practical relationship skills and create a stronger future together, we'd love to welcome you to Love Reimagined.
For enquiries and registration: [email protected] ·
www.christacoetzee.com
Because every healthy relationship begins with one choice.
The choice to keep choosing each other.
Will we have to share our personal problems with the group?
No. Love Reimagined is not group therapy. You will learn relationship skills together as a group, but the conversations that matter most to your relationship happen privately, between the two of you. You will never be asked to share anything in front of others.
Is this basically couples therapy?
No. Therapy is designed to heal what is broken. Love Reimagined is designed for couples who are feeling the disconnection and want to be intentional about it not becoming a crisis. We do not wait until a relationship is broken before investing in it.
Do only couples with problems go to retreats like this?
Not at all. The couples who benefit most are usually not the ones in crisis. They are simply intentional. You service your car before it breaks down. You maintain your home before the roof gives way. Your relationship deserves that same care, given before it is needed, not after. Love brings two people together. Learning the practical relationship skills to nurture that love, is what helps it last.
Am I going to spend four days talking about my feelings?
No. You will spend four days learning practical, usable skills through real activities, real conversation, and real connection, not endless emotional processing. Most couples are surprised by how much they laugh.
Is this retreat going to blame the men?
No. Love Reimagined is not about deciding who is right. It is about helping both partners understand each other more fully. There are no villains in this room. There are simply two people who love each other, trying to be understood.
Will it feel awkward?
It will not. Between the guided sessions, there is laughter, shared meals, coffee breaks, and a relaxed atmosphere that surprises most couples. This is a warm, human experience, not a clinical one.
We are doing fine. Do we really need this?
The strongest relationships do not stay strong by accident. They stay strong because the couple keeps investing in them, on purpose, before the distance has a chance to grow. Fine is exactly the right time to invest, not the wrong one.
We do not have four days to spare.
Four intentional days now can shape the next thirty years of your relationship. Very few investments offer a return like that.
Is R30,000 worth it?
Consider what you already invest in without hesitation: a holiday, a renovation, a new car. Your relationship holds every one of those things together, and yet it is often the part of life that receives the least intentional investment.
My partner needs this. I do not.
Love Reimagined is not about fixing one person. Relationships shift when both people learn new ways of showing up for each other. This retreat was built for both of you, together.